{"id":16,"date":"2024-07-24T21:02:10","date_gmt":"2024-07-24T21:02:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/authorwebservices-xl.net\/ArchwayPublishing\/856702\/?page_id=16"},"modified":"2025-08-21T13:00:28","modified_gmt":"2025-08-21T13:00:28","slug":"about-the-book","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/authorwebservices-temp1.net\/XlibrisUS\/863817\/about-the-book\/","title":{"rendered":"ABOUT THE BOOK"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text has-media-on-the-right is-stacked-on-mobile is-vertically-aligned-center\" style=\"grid-template-columns:auto 30%\"><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\"><strong>Why I Don&#8217;t Date<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Dating Should Be About Sharing and Giving Without Expectations<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When a person desires a wholesome healthy beautiful relationship while believing he or she has what it takes to secure their hearts desire due to their confidence based on charisma, charm, and exterior accessories, the very same person they pulled and displayed in their world as their person, their partner, the best thing that ever happened to them, the person of their dreams, sharing smiles and activities amongst friends and family, even social media is the same person they no longer can stand, despise, respect, and most likely hate. My question is, what causes that switch? And why is this pattern so fluent? Could it be based on the environment and influence we grew up under? And are we willing to give ourselves the chance to go through a shading process to eliminate the inherent behaviors that\u2019s caused us to feel alone and empty inside? It is totally up to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-fe48e5de wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-fill\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-white-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/authorwebservices-temp1.net\/XlibrisUS\/863817\/excerpt\/\" style=\"border-radius:5px\">Read an excerpt<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-fill\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-white-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/www.xlibris.com\/en\/bookstore\/bookdetails\/863817-why-i-dont-date\" style=\"border-radius:5px\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Order a copy<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\" src=\"https:\/\/authorwebservices-temp1.net\/XlibrisUS\/863817\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/cover-flat-199x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-150 size-medium\" srcset=\"https:\/\/authorwebservices-temp1.net\/XlibrisUS\/863817\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/cover-flat-199x300.jpg 199w, https:\/\/authorwebservices-temp1.net\/XlibrisUS\/863817\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/cover-flat-679x1024.jpg 679w, https:\/\/authorwebservices-temp1.net\/XlibrisUS\/863817\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/cover-flat-768x1159.jpg 768w, https:\/\/authorwebservices-temp1.net\/XlibrisUS\/863817\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/cover-flat.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 199px) 100vw, 199px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:10px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-8f761849 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column has-white-background-color has-background is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\"><br><strong>The Author<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\">I am a happy father of two healthy beautiful children. I enjoy eating fresh fruits and vegetables. I take pride and joy in building a quality relationship with myself, which in turn sprinkles to those around me and all over the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/authorwebservices-temp1.net\/XlibrisUS\/863817\/the-author\/\" title=\"\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column has-white-background-color has-background is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\"><br><strong>Buy the Book<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"679\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/authorwebservices-temp1.net\/XlibrisUS\/863817\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/cover-flat-679x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Book Cover\" class=\"wp-image-150\" style=\"width:150px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/authorwebservices-temp1.net\/XlibrisUS\/863817\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/cover-flat-679x1024.jpg 679w, https:\/\/authorwebservices-temp1.net\/XlibrisUS\/863817\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/cover-flat-199x300.jpg 199w, https:\/\/authorwebservices-temp1.net\/XlibrisUS\/863817\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/cover-flat-768x1159.jpg 768w, https:\/\/authorwebservices-temp1.net\/XlibrisUS\/863817\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/cover-flat.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 679px) 100vw, 679px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><em>Why I Don\u2019t Date<\/em><\/strong> is a deeply personal, philosophical, and reflective work that challenges modern dating culture by prioritizing emotional intelligence, self-awareness, spiritual grounding, and authentic connection over superficial romantic pursuits.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.xlibris.com\/en\/bookstore\/bookdetails\/863817-why-i-dont-date\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">Order a copy<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:50px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Author I am a happy father of two healthy beautiful children. 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